My husband and I have been together for over 10 years, married for 3. I bought a house shortly before we got married. He has been unemployed and was suppose to get some type a JOB. He has not been looking until recently. I have been responsible for everything around the house for the most part. He may do a few dishes or load of laundry. I work full time. He will not even go out to pick up milk if I don't tell him to. I will be told we are out of things. He does get an allowance. He nitpicks and makes a big deal of every little thing. He will often come across like I am stupid and he is more intelligent.(if so, why doesn't he have a job!) He makes comments about traveling and going places, when there is NO money. We have no savings! I have a son I need to put through college (not with him). But he does not seem to care that I am not saving. He complains about petty things we do, but does not contribute! I feel that life would be peaceful without him. Sometimes I feel like I am going to explode, because I am always trying to keep the peace. I am so angry! He has made crude, nasty comments to me in the past...now we seem more like roomates than anything. I am more independent and refuse to depend on a man (in this case its for the best). There have been times he has helped with my son, running him to an event or such, and he cannot even get him there on time. Why?!?! Any thoughts would help.