Anyone ever been in this situation? I've been with him for a while and we have had sex a handful of times- I'm really small and he's rather big. I have to cut the act short or encourage him to finish bc it reall hurts me. After, it burns and I feel like I'm all beat up! I want to like it but I think maybe we just aren't compatable. Any suggestions? I want to be a good lover and I also want to enjoy it!