I understand, and I agree. I also think it's not a game if done a certain way, and this may not be possible with him right now. Taking a break from computers and technology can be a great thing, and if there is a big upside to it, you would probably be open to it. But when there is no real benefit to anyone, I can see why you are angry and question his motives as controlling. And that's where it stands.

>I have no job, so I have no money.

Have you ever looked at online jobs? There was a good thread on it in the past, and the bulk of the jobs are in the USA, but my husband got a nice little part time job out of it, too. Just an idea. (And, yes, I know it would cause strife with your H, but it is something to think about perhaps, since you are isolated geographically.)