Thank you, splitimage, for sharing your experience. That is very relevant to what I am so angry about. I think that is a perfect example. To be honest, it sounds worse than what I went through. Despite all the laws protecting privacy and protecting against discrimination, organizations (private, public, and non-profit) have so much power to do as they wish. It is so wrong. I really mean it . . . that your example makes this even clearer than mine. It is so wrong. Then you have to fear fighting it because the outcome could be even worse for you. It is so, so wrong.