Hello and welcome! Your name says it all. I would have a hard time dealing with this situation, too--especially since he runs you down.

Have you considered marriage counseling? If he will not go, then I suggest you go for a few sessions. Then you will have more insight into whether you think this relationship is worth saving.

Does he know how miserable you are? Could he be upset that you are doing well and he is not, so he is taking it out on you and even being passive aggressive?