My son's only 11 but he's on medication that helps his destress and OCD behavior of every day life. He's also on adhd medication to help him focus. He has moved his skin picking to his head and has always been afraid of hair cuts so we no longer require them unless visiting family. I think one of the best things we were able to do is home-school him. That way he socializes with more understanding children that try to involve him as much as he's willing. He just wouldn't be able to handle school. Please tell me how she likes the ASD school as we are looking at one when we move.

I think you need to find her a therapist that is willing to work through art and possibly look into occupational therapy. My son has 3 friends but requires them to come here instead of going to their house.