I can't honestly say I do none of those things, but I honestly never consciously do any of them. Definitely zero understanding about bpd, just a bunch of people playing victim and indulging in hate speech and fear mongering.

Zero grasp of the disorder, like I don't change the topic because I'm losing an argument and know I'm being nonsensical. Something you said triggered an entirely different issue (eg being invalidated) and now this is a problem for me too as well as whatever the hell started the intial argument...

Pffft I don't take offense, I have enough real problems as is.