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Originally Posted by yoyoism
First of all, I'm not religious anymore. I never really was growing up, I just did what my mom wanted me to do. I do believe in a God, but I don't practice any religion, I don't force my belief on others.
And "the problem resides in other religious peoples mind": I don't mind if other people want to get naked or see one another naked or appreciate nakedness, I just want no part of it. My mother is the same. She isn't hateful about it and she doesn't shame other people for it, she just thinks nudity is something very, very private.
I DO have an open and willing mind. We might not be as open with our bodies as you are and that may come from religion, but I'm fine with that. I respect that other people do not feel the same.
Should I force myself to think about my therapist naked to prove that I'm an open mind that is "unburdened by religion"?
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I think you've taken this far to literal. It's about imagination. Hell, I don't want to actually see her naked. This is about feelings. Wanting to explore the idea. Visualisation. I like to imagine seeing T getting out of the bath. I imagine she would look like a Lucien Freud model.
This isn't in the realm of what's private or socially acceptable. This is about the realms of desire.
Not being uptight. Cough cough.