I am without words...
I wonder if they really know what they did...(I have this crazy picture of them thinking they were cheering you up with humor that is so inappropriate it is scary...but if it is that it could be fragile and you might break the spell with crying out the question you have asked here "WHY CAN'T YOU EVER LOVE ME??????????????????"----}if they were serious...you need another adult for support, they are not capable.