my ex-T and I had a very good, healing therapeutic relationship for just under 2 years, but it wasn't totally free from disagreements. We had one really awful session which was as close to a knock-down-drag-out fight that two people can get over the phone. She yelled at me, I yelled at her, she accused me of "wanting something for nothing" among other things, it was like being in the twilight zone, and I felt abysmal for days after that appointment. I almost quit that day, but luckily a passing angel bonked me on the head and I realized if I quit like that, without talking it over especially, I would likely hurt myself a whole lot more than her. So I womaned up, took a deep breath, and called her the next week at appointment time as usual, we talked it all out, and our relationship got even stronger after that actually. I think the work we did together after that fight was some of the best work of our almost-2 years.