My H has learned to use the computer somewhat. He uses craigs list to dream about trucks. The kids help him look stuff up. I have tried t o let him be part of things here on hte computer. I have showed him stuff on this site, and it doesn't interest him. I have let him watch and encouraged his participation in chat here. Again no interest. He reads over my shoulder, or will jsut set beside of me, and ask what ya doin, and tell me how dumb it is what I am doing.

Anything he doesn't like is obviously dumb.

He joined face book. He asked me "How would I feel if he spent several hours a night looking at face book." I told him to go for it. He asked me what if I talked to old friends about us, I told him great. (maybe it would help to talk to someone, but I didn't tell him that) He wanted face book to spite me, except I don't care. The man needs a life so he will leave mine alone. He asked what if I talk to females on face book. Again woopde do. Males, females, what ever I am not threatened by other women.

I am so glad he joined face book and is doing normal people things. But to turn it off for a month is unreasonable to me. A weekend sure, a week would be difficult but to prove it is possible I could. After I let the whole world know, call me not e mail me.

He just wants the control and the upper hand. If he can;t get it his way, then he will manipulate and try to make me angry, like by using face book. He is learned to become more of the passive aggressive type. The T has said if he goes there, then all bets are off. Leave.