Healing, I have been at home for 16 years now. I am not exactly in high demand in the work field. I also have 3 kids. I would lose my job if one person gets the stomach bug. Mama takes care of 3 sick kids and her sick self and misses a week of work. Employment over.

I do like staying at home. I got to go on a field trip with my little girl this week, she is only 6 yrs old..
I need to be here when my aspurgers son who is 13, gets home form school. It takes a full time parent to make sure he doesn't get into anything. Plus I home school my 15 yr old son. Due to bullying he will not be going back to public school.

I did open a checking account for the first time a little over a year ago, that H detest to. I also got my first credit card which he would love to chop to little bits. The intensive in home T made it so these things were put into place. The current T says do not close that account or cancel that card. Put every ounce of birthday money, and any other gift of money in that account. She has told my H , stop, I will not be closing the account or canceling the credit card.

I do plan on going back to work someday. Most likely in another 5 years though. I need and want to be here for my kids. That doesn't help things now though.