I used to censor myself when I first started therapy, years ago. Presently, with this T, I tell her everything. I've asked her often if anything is TMI (too much information) and she always says no. It's been difficult for me but I've talked about sex and body stuff, in detail. I've told her all the feelings I have for her, which is embarrassing too. I told her about looking her and her family up online and going past her house. I guess there's almost nothing I haven't told her. Something I learned, though, is that I can hurt her if I tell her everything I'm thinking about her, like when I recently told her what I thought of her being thin. So I will censor myself about saying negative things about her. That's pretty easy, since I like her so much!
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