Yeah, I get you completely. Last year I went through some really terrible urges... I could literally physically could feel my skin crawling at night and I was curled up on my bed to stop myself... but somehow I got through those. And then a few months later I just missed it and did it for no apparent reason whatsoever. So I totally get what you mean.

If you think he knows about it and simply isn't saying anything, then it turns into this elephant in the room... it's on everyone's mind but no one says anything, you know? So if that happens I think you should say something, if not for your sake then for his, to relieve the pressure he might be feeling.

Just a thought.

- AJ