Thread: Bribery
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Old Oct 20, 2013, 07:38 AM
Anonymous33175
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Ah, I have read about and experienced ED treatment and it can at times be unique.

For example, my last T would take me to lunch. It was a way to model healthy, safe eating when I was "fearful" of eating and gaining weight. T would talk moderation about every food item and "show" me that there were no harmful foods, etc. It's sound infantile, but it was being with someone I trusted and watching that food was "ok"... you know what I mean?

Battling EDs sucks. Unlike other "habits" you can't just not buy food or alcohol. You need food, so if you read the literature on ED treatment, there are many methods and strategies Ts may use.

Don't see it as a bribery. See it as a tool to help you overcome the issue... with an awesome outcome. Of course talk about it, so you explore the feelings associated with "the bribe" and pressure, etc........ but alas there are some really embarrassing costumes out there