I agree with the posters above. Marriage is a partnership it seems like you said, he's got some control issues. A lot of people have said there is no good reason for this. I'm curious as to why he wants no computer for a month.

You use the computer as a tool for your mental health so that in itself is unreasonable. I am sorry that you and he have a hard time communicating, it goes that way with controlling people, their way or nothing.

I'm so sorry you are having to go through this issue. It's kind of like asking him not to use the car for a month (a tool) and take the bus for a month. See how life can be grocery shopping, going to work, coming home, etc... I'm doing it and believe me, it's not fun or functional in today's society.

The internet is here to stay, it's time for him to face that.