I don't really like the idea of compartmentalizing a girl as good or bad. In addition to the problems that eskie mentioned, like compromising values, it's also.. just... so limiting... Seeing her as bad verses good in this context is like seeing her as sexual verses a prude. It's sending mixed messages about sexuality. That sexual women are inherently bad, which I'm pretty sure we all know how well that works out for one's mental state... But it's a double-edged sword, because prude also has negative conotations. Women just can't win and they've been dealing with this for years. And this song just continues this divide between good and bad.
And for me personally? Even if this was sung by a woman, I'd still find it extremely annoying and wouldn't listen to it. I would also stand by my opinion that no one should tell anyone else what they want. I am well aware that there are women who rape, both men and women, and I think I would interpret the song the same way.
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