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Old Oct 20, 2013, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by imnotokayipromise View Post
... school ruins things for me. I used to enjoy writing. School ruined that for me because it was forced upon me. I no longer enjoy writing like I used to because of school. And I'm scared that will happen with music.
For me, there wasn't much to like about school. Through junior high, high school, and the first year or so of college I learned to dislike writing assignments more and more. I was fascinated to notice, however, that a few years later I was finding things I wanted to say -- and I was enjoying both saying them as best I could, and learning to say them even better.

A few months after graduating from college I was working as a research assistant and had occasion to take a class in computer programming. To my surprise, I enjoyed the whole thing. It occurred to me that it was probably the first class I'd taken where there were no grades, no deadlines and no pressure, and I was there only because I wanted to understand the subject.

Unfortunately I have no advice for how to get from hating school and classes to enjoying them. I could probably have gotten there more easily than I actually did but I haven't a clue how, nor (perhaps more important) what else it would've cost me.

Fwiw, I once found myself thinking that there were two activities that were definitely not part of my self image: riding a motorcycle and writing a thesis. At the time I had that particular thought, I was riding home on my motorcycle after submitting my (undergraduate) thesis.