It is definately sexual harassmabt IMO. I know that you are in shock and don't know what to do. You can be in shock for very long and I would not act while in this state... Just wait a day, in the meantime plan what you want to do and think of the outcomes (positive outcomes as well) I don't really know what more to say, but I can understand that you must feel awful. Maybe you can talk to your friend or someone you trust before you talk to your husband? To get a better opinion about things...