I too pushed my ts boundaries and it ruined our relationship because she just ended up hostile and resentful toward me. It seems like your t may be responding the same way. I ended up terminating because the resentment I was getting from her was very damaging to me because of my strong transference. I did have another t I was already seeing otherwise the cut would have been much harder. I recommend you try to find someone else because it isn't healthy to have a relationship where your t is angry with you.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this at the same time as your other losses. That is really tough.