I can see how this place can be destabilizing for some. Sometimes I worry that I will pick up behaviours I didnt have before, but this hasnt happened thankfully. I think I am at a stage of my recovery that it wont happen. The SI forum concerns me at times, I know there are many young women on this site who may get ideas and encouragement for SI. I do find some advice here to be quite bizarre, but thats really to be expected and happens on most forums.