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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
You totally aren't a freak for daydreaming like that. It probably would also help in processing what happened when you can make the situation a bit less personal by having someone else as the abuser - it lets you take a tiny step backwards to look at it.
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Thank you for saying I'm not a freak, I really needed to hear that. And thank you for pointing out that it allows me to start processing or looking at it. I hadn't thought of it like that before. Thinking about it feels like jumping in a fire and this is a way of turning the fire down.