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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
I dumped my t. I feel heartbroken. I miss her already and I am not sure what went wrong yet but I feel sick.
I don't want to see another t after having two bad experiences already but I have to see another t as I have to for my course.
I feel like such a failure.
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You're not a failure, Mona. It takes a lot of strength and courage to dump a T, and as with any new relationship, of course it's frightening to think about trying to make it work all over again.
Don't forget there are two people in the client-T relationship, so any dysfunction is unlikely to be 100% on one person. I'm sorry it didn't work out. I had a termination last year that was excruciating, incredibly sad. I am really glad I just pushed myself to find another T at that time, because even though I didn't totally click with the next T right away, it was far and away better than being T-less and feeling so alone with the termination sadness.
Good luck
