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Originally Posted by Cityworld75
Hello, my guy is great, except for the fact that I am nervous to have sex and while he is willing to wait, he has watched porn movies (as most men do I suppose) and 'learnt' from them. So, he is trying to use what he has 'learnt' from the movies on me during some fooling around, which I'm not fond of at all...! I would like him to be more gentle and sweet...!!! What to do?! Does anyone else have some issues like this?. Thanks peeps  |
lol when something similar to this was happening to me, I started watching porn and found one that worked for me and then my wife and I watched it together. her problem was that I had so many moods that one time something would be ok and the next it wouldnt so my wife wouldnt know which way to go.
over time, with discussion and watching porn together my wife and I were able to find that happy medium that fit both her and I, and she learned how to tell when was enough and when I needed more. we also use code words that mean things like stop right now, no thats not ok, too rough, too easy.........