Yes, the urge does go away. I lived without if for at least a month maybe close to 2. What I want to know is "does it ever go away and never come back?"

<font color=green>But the implicit and usually unconscious bargain we make with ourselves is that, yes, we want to be healed, we want to be made whole, we're willing to go some distance, but we're not willing to question the fundamental assumptions upon which our way of life has been built, both personally and societally.--Bill Plotkin, Soulcraft