I know what you mean.my cat was the same way. But he got ahold of something poisonous and he died. It was one of the saddest toughests days of my life. I was a cat person until I couldn't have cats anymore due to a pack of cyotes stalking and eating them. It was just awful. So now I have chiweenies and I never in my life thought I could love a dog. But these 4 angels stole my heart and saved me from a quiet lonely and depressed existance.