Hi PC,
Have a look back at your childhood.If you
were not loved as a child,you have found the reason
for your behaviour. What we do is,make the people
in the world our surrogate parents and try to get the
love,affection,approval we never got as children!
This is degrading and demeaning,and a betrayal of
whom we really are. BUT, the compulsion is so
strong we keep doing it--even after being told of it.
Others will take advantage of you,and disrespect
you. Instead of seeking approval,seek to be respected,then people will like,or not like whom you REALLY ARE!
Deepest Respect,
BLUEDOVE