Teenage girls and guys are very different. GUY Are like predators on the hunt and girls constantly have to shoot them down. Sometimes people want to have fun and just go with things.
If things were reversed and it was you that was hooking up with people back then would it matter about her past?
You can't change what happened and brooding over it is going to cause yourself anguish. Try to accept that she has had different experiences than you, but know she wants to be with you. If those experiences were all amazing then she would still be doing that. Being that she has been dating you for months sounds like those things aren't as good as what she has with you.
Try to feel good that you can enjoy eachothers company. You may have been lonely back then and lacked experience but you have it now. Try not to beat yourself up for not hooking up with people in your teens. It doesn't make you anyless of a person and I doubt she thinks less of you for it.
You get to know someone enough and you learn about all kinds of things that are hard to deal with. I've been married for 6 years and everything has come out from our past on both sides. The key to to accept each other even if they made mistakes or has different experiences.
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