I'm torn on what to do with my bf. I've been with him almost two years and we've had terrribleee ups and downs, but we somehow made it through until the last month or two. We've both been irritable over our own issues, and i haven't been interested in sex [not that im not attracted to him, just no urge or desire for it] .He's broken up with me twice and the one time i took all my stuff [ since we live together] he asked me if we could try again. i mean, i am trying but it seems like nothing i do appeases him. he has zero patience, and his main issue is the sex. we used to have it all the time, and now its like once a week or so. he thinks im not trying, but i really am. it may not seem like much but it is. and hes obvlisous to it all. he pisses me off and does **** i dont agree with, but overall i do love him and would accept him if only he accepted me completely.
im at the point where my brain is saying go, and my heart is saying stay. i want to HOPE we have something left.. but i kind of feel like unless him and i start doing **** we did when we first dated [ which he doesnt wanna do] like go on dates and stupid stuff like that.. then idk if we are compatitible anymore.

anyone else understand my dilemma ?
ive been in a 4 year relationship and it got to the point of me breaking it off with the kid because i did not care AT ALL anymore and i just dont want it to get to that point with this relationship.

help?!?!