I have become aware that my current T is being supervised on my case by my old T. Now, I did not leave my old T, she retired. But I was vert attached to her and love her very much. Even though I understood it all from a logical viewpoint, I was very hurt and felt very abandoned. She made it very clear that she would consider us having a "friendship" but only after it had been two years since the completion of therapy. So as I count the days, I find out now that she has been aware of what is going on with me all along. Now, I know I am a difficult case and I should be glad that my old T has been willing to continue to supervise my new T. But something in me is just so angry that my old T knows what has been going on with me, and I don't get to know anything about her. I told my new T that I wasn't sure I was comfortable with this situation and why. She told me everything that was said (I believe she is truthful with me) and said that if I really did not want her to talk to my old T about me she wouldn't. But that having her supervision was important to her and very helpful ih helping her help me. Just confused. I just can't help feeling this is so unfair.
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I have heard about your "normal" and it does not sound like fun to me.
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