Hello Lady, so sorry for your sadness, that person doesn't have a clue. I notice when folks don't know what to say or tryingq to lift themselves up they say stupid things. Just say I'm sorry you have to make yourself big by putting what truly effects me down but even though you have hurt my feelings by what you have said I forgive you because you don't know better because if you did you would not be so cruel. Have great day because I intend to live life in victory. I bet after you say that it would be the last time they say something like that to you. Keep your head up my friend.