ok, i guess "disguised psychopaths" was a wrong comparison.

and yes I agree that if persons know you are disordered like this it can be very damaging for the relationship and it is obvious that the person will avoid you, unless we are talking about family or long term friends or other close people, but even for those it will be very hard to handle; and all this after they can understand what really is our disease, cause to be honest not even I sometimes can.