I also disagree. I worked as a cashier in high school (back in the early 90's). I still remember some of the regular customers with fondness. I'm not a particularly touchy feely person and I still cared. Most T's have a totally different personality type - I'm sure they're even more invested.

Sometimes the T cares enough to tell us things that we don't want to hear. I hope you're able to find some peace. Sometimes it is hard to see what's in our own best interest.