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Originally Posted by Miswimmy1
I feel like old t filled some hole inside of me and I can't bear to lose her  It may have been an unhealthy relationship but I can't change the fact that it was a relationship that we had, and that I enjoyed. I can't deny those feelings. The idea of not seeing her ever again is unbearable to me How am I supposed to just move on? |
I feel like that about my exes. I still miss them, each of them. But I move on, and eventually meet someone else who I care a great deal about. But that only happens because I recognize that it's over, and that even though I care, it's time to move on. I have to make myself be open to letting someone new in.
You don't have to stop caring about your old T, and you don't have to stop missing her. Those feelings will fade into the background as time goes on - and those spaces will be filled by new people. But only if you let them. Which is why your old T is a toxic relationship for you - you were content to just have your Old T and you were not growing.
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