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Originally Posted by tinyrabbit
I know, or at least part of me knows - that's the ridiculous thing. I understand that he may as well have said it. I understand that he was respectful and considerate.
But I just keep thinking about how I missed out on actually hearing him say it. I hate my stupid brain. It feels like one more thing I've been robbed of.
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Maybe it's OK to feel both equally. Ambivalence can run deep and isn't necessarily a bad thing. Can you accept that each reaction can have value for you?