My opinion - I don't think it's supportive to tell someone to stifle their feelings when seeing their t. Also my t's opinion, as I asked him about this yesterday. I told him I felt like people were contradicting me, and he saidwell yes, your mother would contradict you and give you terrible advice that sounded good, but it was just in opposition to what you were saying. So that explains why I saw stars! This advice sounds good, but I dont feel holding back the truth, especially when you are running out of time, is a good plan. Plus I think this t needs some supervision - she is all over the place and not handling a fairly simple transference. Hell I could handle it better. Pardon my french.