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Old Oct 22, 2013, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted by BlessedRhiannon View Post
I do best with a T that is around the same age as me. My current T is about 10 years older. If the T is too much older than me, then I get the "mom" vibe and struggle to trust the T. Too much younger means they haven't had that many years of experience and I do need a T with a decent amount of experience.
Exactly and that's what I want to avoid.

I don't feel a one-on-one connection with someone who is decades older than me. My Disability Lawyer is over 30 years older than me (older than my parents) and while I have lots of respect for her for taking my case for so long (at least 3 years) through several appeals I don't really have a one-on-one connection with her.

Last edited by RTerroni; Oct 22, 2013 at 11:07 AM.