sorry you have encountered the lower side of the web. As well as (apparently) a few christians who forgot what that label means.....

"Love the sinner, not the sin."

That is not me "judging", that is what I believe Christ was largely about. He hung out with the sinners, the adulters, the murders, the thieves. The only people Christ seemed upset with - where the "righteous ones".

So, I say "WELCOME". I do not care about your past. I do not care about your private issues. You are as welcome as anyone else!