I struggle with this. I know my t cares but I have a hard time with how they can just turn it off when I leave. When I am in a really bad state and they know it it bothers me to think that they can just go about their lives basically I impacted by the fact that I am falling apart. I know they have to learn to do this to function as they have many patients. But, if someone I care about is suffering it really affects me and I can't just put it out if my mind. So sometimes I think you have to be a little cold to be a t.