I found my t sorta by perfect luck. My pdoc gave me a list of 5 or so names and I was researching them, was reading one of their profiles on psychologytoday.com and on the same page was my t - her profile just jumped out at me because it mentioned dream work. So I got brave and called both her and one off pdoc's list. She called me back and the other one didn't, and we hit it off on that first phone call, so i stuck pdoc's list in a folder and never looked back. the rest is successful history.