Struggling with what to do. It seems I'm getting no where with C. Time and again she has triggered us even tho I have told her about triggers. It seems she doesn't listen to the pain and doesn't meet who ever is out where they are at. She often looks bored and inattentive. Sometimes things click and I think that maybe the other times were just flukes. But lately the times things click are the flukes.

Last session set one of my insiders back to square one. Back to feeling like "nothing" and back to c*tting. C triggered her with the same things that she told C were triggers.

Is it time to change, quit therapy all together and try to do it ourselves or what??
W_I