How could you call yourself a mother and profess to love your children and show no action towards that? That is my experience with my own mother. I don't understand her. It tends to want to make me sad bring me down mess with my head. I love my mother and so hope one day she will show some sense of care. I refuse to go to that place. Yesterday she tried to take me there. I really feel sorry for her, she is missing out on a daughter.