I like this forum because it can be nice to hear other peoples' perspectives. I often feel reassured that so many other people experience therapy as a huge life project and have so many disparate and intense feelings about it. But I don't generally base my life decisions on what people are saying on PC. Like all advice, some of it is good, some is bad. Some observations seem particularly astute and relevant to my situation and others less so. It's just one more way of interacting with people. It's not a cult or binding arbitration or anything. Does your T feel that you're unduly influenced by the other folks on PC?