Adam, I am so tired of dealing with him on the issue of the computer. He is jealous of the time I spend on the computer. I can understand to a degree. While he is home, I can get off the computer. but to say I can't use it even when he is not here is controlling. Not during the day time while he is at work, while he is busy outside or placing bids, and not at night after he has gone to sleep. That is a little more control then he has the right to request. And for a month, come on a month. I will agree to a week, 7 days, that's it.

Casurfer I don't plan on agreeing to this. If it were one of those things were we all give up something for a week, or I have an issue like an addiction or something that would be different. I don;t use it to watch porn, I don;t use it to chat with people of the opposite sex, In fact I use it mostly here at this site and another support site for survivors of rape. I do very much need the computer because I am at home all the time, and because I need to reach out side of these walls for friendship. I