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Originally Posted by Jan1212
Sorry it was a little hard to understand. So you don't trust him and now he is distancing himself? And you are resenting him now, and can't let go from the past. Trust is a big part in a relationship, it's hard. I don't know if it's an underlying issue you may need to fix first. You can't control a person. My husband took over 4 years to stop being paranoid about me with other people. Be calm and relax, then you can enjoy the relationship.
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Thanks dear.. no he is not letting me to live alone. he needs me by trusting him completely. every time i used to ask cross questions and that time he will scold me at any point. he wants me completely but i cant able to believe him. i know he is perfect now. somehow i wont trust him.. even if he tells truth i wont believe him.. because he hurted me a lot before. i dont have any trust on him. everytime my heart gets suspects on him. may be he is good but my painfull heart not letting me to trust him anymore. but i need to get out of this mind. even i too paranoid since 2010.