Thanks all so much for your support. A lot has happened already since I posted this. One I told my husband, I felt I had to and that I has already waited to long. I ideally wanted him to hug me and tell me it wasn't my fault, but I expected he would want to find the guy and be mad at me for risking myself the way I did...being trusting. How he reacted was he was angry, asked me a bunch of question, and made me tell the story three or four times so he could understand. Things I didn't notice or realize now have come to view too. He was pissed off, but after hiding from me for a few hours and avoiding me he came to realize it was not my fault at all and that I did not ask for this to happen. But he did make me go to myspace and show him the picture of the guy that did it. We've met the guy together twice at two shows...the guy knew I was married and had met my husband. My husband plans on making him apologize, even if it means getting physical.

The things I realized after the third degree and telling the story over and over was, there was 3 different people in the same room we were in sleeping, so he had to have been very slow very sneaky. I also noticed that there is a possibility he went under my clothes because after I woke up my bottom button on my pants were undone. All scary.

I know if this was to get out to the band, or my friend, which it eventually will there will be problems. My husband explained a few things to me about my best friends boyfriend (bass player) that I did not know about. He's not as loyal and sweet as he portrays to me and of course my friend. He told me when my friend and I would leave the bar he would be on other girls the second we walked out...messed up. I now think of him differently. They we're all joking about the lead singer trying to screw an ex members wife that forced them to move out of state...they were joking about it. I fear if these guys are who I think they are (I could be wrong) I will become another one of their sick jokes. That bothers me the most.