Tiodlliwi, he has a weird way of using energy to begin with so I guess that you have a big dilemma. I can see the difference in energy there.

Maybe you should syncronize and do an exciting activity different than his but just as much of a lift up. I can't think of anything, can you? How about a dance club night where you throw a party with all your cool friends and use cool lamps and music and stuff and just hang out and have a blast with "your neat friends" Nothing dirty or seedy as far as sexual activity, but at the same time you and a couple of your girlfriends could study belly dancing together and have a blast and laugh your buts off as well. You sound so interesting to be in love with this musical guy and you too must have some groove, so maybe get into that art and see some thrilling happiness, and don't be too shy, just stay good for yourself where your bounderies lay. Love Razeljenny. (smile)