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Originally Posted by rainbow8
You're right, and that's what I have trouble with. I don't know how to tell what is useful and what isn't! Most of what people tell me, I believe. That's probably why T is so interested in building up my Self.
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Oh yeah thats wishy-washy. A guy called me wishy-washy in high school - so over 40 years ago - and I never forgot it!! I didn't like it at all. But he was right. But I couldn't afford NOT to be wishy-washy. I think it ties in to betrayal. If you depend for your life on the ones betraying you, you have to be blind to their betrayal, per this research by Jennifer Freyd. It's kind of like dissociating. That's why I don't see my family of origin. It kept me straddling a fence which got more and more uncomfortable! I finally picked my side.