I'm afraid I may lose it. My mother died this past summer. The cemetery is right next to my home. I can walk to her grave in less than 5 minutes. I go almost everyday because I am still grieving, and today I just got home and the flowers I made (an autumn silk flower arrangement I made myself) are GONE. Can somebody actually have stolen it? I also have a couple of nice solar lights and an angel there but they were not taken. I looked around but can't find it. I know it couldn't have blown away anyway because the pot is very heavy. Why?