So tomorrow when I see her do it what should I say? Do I make a joke about need to padlock it away or no joke and just say when this happens I feel dismissed? The second statement I've already made so seems I need a different approach. And yes, the first time I addressed it I asked why she couldn't leave it in her purse or desk. She said she likes having it accessible and keeping an eye on appointment times. That I do not believe but I accepted it because I thought she was agreeing to change her behaviour.